"Nothing is gone forever. The belief that we have "lost" something or someone is merely an illusion to assist us in learning to appreciate having had it in the first place. The emotion of grief and the sense of loss are real-but that is the point. The emotion of loss is not about the actual physical separation, because the parting is temporary and illusionary. The point of the lesson is to acknowledge that the bonds of love never end and that we have not been abandoned.
When you accept in your heart that you will be reunited with everything you have ever loved, it will give you the ability to move beyond your grief and derive something beneficial from the experience. To wallow in grief is to pass up the opportunity that you and your soul family have devised and learn nothing from it. Instead allow your grief to take you to a place of deeper understanding."